Anytime I get into a conflict or my life spirals out of control, I turn to myīefore I get into the meditation, I ask myself: Why is this happening to me? What is the lesson that I need to learn from this? Help me see the way. Over years, I have learned to use the art of meditation to hear the whispers of my soul. The tool that I use for this is meditation. I rarely make big decisions in my life without “consulting” with my inner guidance or when I am not in the right headspace. While this experience was unfortunate, it also taught me a very important life lesson. The easiest way to listen to your intuition is to ask yourself if you are making the decision out of fear or out of love. That choice is between fear and love, between blame-shifting and personal responsibility. There is always a choice in any decision that you make. The reality is that in order to get to the next level, we must get out of victim mode and learn to take
In the grand scheme of things, when we ignore our intuition, we introduce complexities to our path. Nothing good can come out of this space-we are neither neutral nor can we listen to our intuition. The primitive, reactionary mind is not the best for making decisions because we are in a downward spiral and are tackling multiple negative thoughts in our heads. This is where the process of discernment comes in-discernment between whether you are making a decision to sate your ego or to truly evolve and expand yourself. The untrained mind often reacts the way I did, from fear and from anger. There are many times when we feel the need to react, and the need to feel validated. Instead, I was stuck at the wrong job, working long hours, in misery, and hating every minute of it. That wrong decision cost me two years of my life that I could have used toward my personal goals and business. Unfortunately, the voice of my ego was stronger. Your intuition often speaks to you through your body, and my body was clearly saying no. I remember going to my farewell party and feeling like I might throw up. I took the new job, but the moment I accepted the offer, I realized the colossal mistake I had made. Tony Robbins often says It is in your moments of decisions that your destiny is shaped. But at that moment, due to that disagreement, I made a decision to leave it all from a place of anger. Now here is the thing-I did have a great job, I had a great team, no long hours, and I liked what I did. I started to look for new jobs and got offers. They will realize when they lose you, whispered my ego. I was so humiliated and angry that he could not see my side.
It spiraled out of control to the point where my boss then had to have a sit-down with us. I gave this job so many years, and she decides to walk in and mess it all up for me,” I said to my husband.Ī few years back, when I was working full time at my corporate job, I got into a disagreement with a team member. “I can’t believe they are taking her side over mine. “Intuition is the whisper of the soul.” ~Jiddu Krishnamurti
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